RANT.....EPISODE 2 (SUNBO'S RANT)

Hi. I’m Sunbo. I’m 28 years old. I know most of you know me as Bigma. By profession,  I’m a freelance radio presenter and an entertainment media publicist. But I’m not here to talk about work. I’m here to be real about how I feel.
Recently, it has come to my knowledge that I come across as very manly. Apparently that is the reason why I’m chronically single. So what if I can handle my vodka way better than most men! So what if I love puffing on menthol cigars! So what if I’d rather be in control of who I’m intimate with! And yes, I talk open about my sex-capades! I’m just me.
I know I don’t act like your regular ‘girl next door’ but underneath all this manly-ness, there is definitely a woman. I hurt the same. I’ve had heartbreaks. I cry. I mean, I’m human.
I’ll never apologize for who I am or what I stand for, so don’t expect me to. I think most of the men I’ve ever dated or liked all suffer the same ailment..they were never man enough for me. Quit the silly excuses of ‘I’m not ready for a committed relationship but I’d love to be in your pants always’ crap! Or the ones who could never grow the right amount of balls to tell me how they feel. Its simple, you are not man enough for me.
So that’s why I’m waiting. I’m waiting, not searching. Don’t feed me crappy lines in hopes of getting laid. A real man would simply ask. Just so darn tired of all the wimps around me!
All said and done, let me reintroduce myself. Hi, I’m Sunbo, a manly woman who is waiting for a manly man who would bring out the woman in me. You can read my blog here

***** Dear Friend and sister Sunbo, It is a tough world out there for those of us that can measure up to men in certain areas. Some men can't stand the thought of a bold, able and capable woman thus they mask their flaws and shortcomings with lines like "she is too manly"....that's utter BS....We are in an era where women like men can; make money, flex, spend lavishly and stupidly, drink and get high, smoke and even pay for sex. So don't sweat it,the boys you've encountered are only preparing you for the man you'll end up with. Don't worry, you'd be fine, okay?

So, I've decided to make my rant episodes open to the public. If there's anything you want to rant about from the situation of  the country, to your relationship problems (I know there are things you can't say to your partner's face but you just want to rant it out), to your personal life, anything that's worth ranting about, you can just send it to my email addy moby.amusu@gmail.com and I'll post it however you want it (anonymously or non-anonymously). Let the rants begin!!!!!!!!!!!