Hi. I’m Sunbo. I’m 28 years old. I know most of you know me as Bigma.
By profession, I’m a freelance radio presenter and an entertainment
media publicist. But I’m not here to talk about work. I’m here to be
real about how I feel.
Recently, it has come to my knowledge that I come across as very
manly. Apparently that is the reason why I’m chronically single. So what
if I can handle my vodka way better than most men! So what if I love
puffing on menthol cigars! So what if I’d rather be in control of who
I’m intimate with! And yes, I talk open about my sex-capades! I’m just
me.
I know I don’t act like your regular ‘girl next door’ but underneath
all this manly-ness, there is definitely a woman. I hurt the same. I’ve
had heartbreaks. I cry. I mean, I’m human.
I’ll never apologize for who I am or what I stand for, so don’t
expect me to. I think most of the men I’ve ever dated or liked all
suffer the same ailment..they were never man enough for me. Quit the
silly excuses of ‘I’m not ready for a committed relationship but I’d
love to be in your pants always’ crap! Or the ones who could never grow
the right amount of balls to tell me how they feel. Its simple, you are
not man enough for me.
So that’s why I’m waiting. I’m waiting, not searching. Don’t feed me
crappy lines in hopes of getting laid. A real man would simply ask. Just
so darn tired of all the wimps around me!
All said and done, let me reintroduce myself. Hi, I’m Sunbo, a manly
woman who is waiting for a manly man who would bring out the woman in me. You can read my blog
here
***** Dear Friend and sister Sunbo, It is a tough world out there for those of us that can measure up to men in certain areas. Some men can't stand the thought of a bold, able and capable woman thus they mask their flaws and shortcomings with lines like "she is too manly"....that's utter BS....We are in an era where women like men can; make money, flex, spend lavishly and stupidly, drink and get high, smoke and even pay for sex. So don't sweat it,the boys you've encountered are only preparing you for the man you'll end up with. Don't worry, you'd be fine, okay?
So, I've decided to make my rant episodes open to the public. If there's anything you want to rant about from the situation of the country, to your relationship problems (I know there are things you can't say to your partner's face but you just want to rant it out), to your personal life, anything that's worth ranting about, you can just send it to my email addy
moby.amusu@gmail.com and I'll post it however you want it (anonymously or non-anonymously). Let the rants begin!!!!!!!!!!!
